Challenges and Changes

Hey Susannah – where the heck have you been the last two months? Your blog has been all but abandoned! Funny you should ask…life has been busy! In brief: The commute to Boston had quite literally been harming me. Back in March, my long-existing minor arthritis pain in my hips suddenly flared up into excruciating Read More…

30 Days of Kink: Day 1

So apparently I’m the sort of “blogger” (I apply that term loosely to myself at this point) who requires writing prompts. At least for now.  So I dug around in the dusty corners of the Internet and dusted off the five year old 30 Days of Kink writing prompts. The original was posted by Queer Read More…

GKENE Re-cap

(First off  – oops…I haven’t blogged in over three weeks. Sigh. Mea Culpa.) Last weekend I attended GKE:NE (Geeky Kink Event: New England). It was a simultaneously invigorating and exhausting weekend and I think I’m still recovering on a few fronts four days later. It was incredibly freeing to be among “my people!” as I Read More…

Pushing Limits

We dominant-type folks like to tell our submissives, “pushing soft limits is how you grow”, we’re fond of encouraging others to try new things and step outside their comfort zone. But if continual growth is the goal, those things should hold true for us as well. And sometimes we forget that and get stuck in Read More…