On Fear and Acceptance of Self

I sometimes get asked, “How have you not found someone yet?”. Which I take to mean, “Why are you currently single?”, because of course, I HAVE found some wonderful submissives in the past. I’m still friends and in frequent contact with several of them, in fact. My pat answer to that is, “I’m selective.” Which Read More…

Updates 2.0

Holy fuck it’s been over three months since I updated this blog. Mea Culpa to the few readers I have left out there. Here’s what’s happened since I was last here: Foot surgery was scheduled – would mean 6-8 weeks non-weight bearing after College in the Boston area wanted to interview me the following week Read More…

Some Brief Updates

I’ve had more than a few folks track me down in various places on the web to ask how my health is, after I vented a bit on the blog about my multiple health frustrations. So I figured a brief update was in order: Breast biopsy was negative – I’ll get re-checked every six months Read More…

On Fetish-Wear

In my post about Shibaricon, I noted my frustration of the double standard that exists in “the scene” for men and women when it comes to clothing and appearance. I’m quite sure other bloggers more eloquent than I have written about this, but it’s not something I hear talked about very often. So here’s my Read More…