Virgin Fetish

I’ve written about the word virginity before – in the context of not liking the term “taking someone’s virginity”. In that post, I was talking about the first definition of the word below: vir·gin·i·ty vərˈjinədē/ noun 1. the state of never having had sexual intercourse. 2. the state of being naive, innocent, or inexperienced in Read More…

30 Days of Kink: Days 3, 4, and 5

Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky? Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks? Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience? If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen. (I’m combining these three days as they’re all very similar and Read More…

30 Days of Kink: Day 2

List your kinks. Another seemingly straightforward question. According to Wikipedia, In human sexuality, kinkiness is any unconventional sexual practices, concepts or fantasies. The term derives from the idea of a “bend” (cf. a “kink”) in one’s sexual behaviour, to contrast such behaviour with “straight” or “vanilla” sexual mores and proclivities. The term kink has been Read More…

Lost and Found

I haven’t blogged lately…lots going on! This is my last semester of PhD coursework and there’s an incredible amount of work to be done. The weather has been insane. And oh yeah…I’m exploring a new relationship with a lovely boy. If you read his blog, you’ve been awaiting my perspective on things. Let’s get right Read More…