30 Days of Kink: Days 6 and 7

Note: Once again combining “days” from the list because I can. Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy. Day 7: What’s your favorite toy? I’ll answer day 7 first, although I prefer the term tool to toy: Rope. Rope is versatile. Rope can be sensual and connecting. Rope can be rough and biting. Rope Read More…

30 Days of Kink: Day 2

List your kinks. Another seemingly straightforward question. According to Wikipedia, In human sexuality, kinkiness is any unconventional sexual practices, concepts or fantasies. The term derives from the idea of a “bend” (cf. a “kink”) in one’s sexual behaviour, to contrast such behaviour with “straight” or “vanilla” sexual mores and proclivities. The term kink has been Read More…

What Service Looks Like

For those of you following along in other places on the Internet, I attended Bound in Boston for the first time last weekend. A truly amazing experience – hands down the best-organized con I’ve ever attended (kinky or otherwise). The energy all weekend was just spot-on…building slowly Saturday and peaking at the amazing play party Read More…